Winter Silent Meditation Retreat

With Prasadachitta

Meditation will be at the heart of this winter retreat, inspired by the Buddha’s teaching on kindness in the Metta Sutta. Practicing together in silence, we will have the chance to slow down and remember what truly supports us.

As the heart settles, we begin to sense more clearly the changing, interdependent nature of our lives. We may also rediscover our belonging with the living Earth, and a simple gratitude for the ways she sustains and holds us.

Little by little, we can notice how kindness sometimes gets tangled with self-doubt or the need to prove ourselves. In the quiet, these patterns can be gently met and softened. We will welcome what feels beautiful and what feels frightening, allowing silence to show us our own way of meeting life with kindness.

EXPERIENCE

This retreat is recommended for people who are familiar with Mindfulness of Breathing, Metta Bhavana, and Just Sitting meditation practices. You should feel comfortable being in silence around people for long periods of time. It is helpful if you have been on a previous retreat.  If you are not sure whether this retreat is right for you please email us.

SILENCE

After the first day the retreat will be in silence except for teachings, meditation reviews, and some mindful communication in the shrine room. There will be a note jar for questions, and the organizer will be available for anything urgent. It’s a rare chance to take a break from making conversation and to see what happens when we really let ourselves be. We will provide an emergency number so that you do not need to check your phone.  If you don’t feel comfortable putting your device/s aside please consider not attending.

HEALTH AND SAFETY

Please check all our requirements here.

FOOD AND WORK PERIODS

All food is vegan, with eggs and dairy options on the side. To simplify cooking and cleaning in silence we have a cook to organize lunch and dinner, and everyone on the retreat chooses a task that they can do every day – either preparing breakfast, chopping vegetables, or cleaning dishes. If you have a preference please let us know in advance. There is also a clean up session that we all share at the end of the retreat.

ACCOMMODATION

Dharmadhara is a rustic residence with a very beautiful shrine room, located  in Lake County – about 2.5 to 3 hours North of San Francisco. The main building has a kitchen, dining room, sitting room with wood burning stove, 7 small dorms, some with 2 beds, some with 3 beds, 3 indoor toilets and 2 showers. There are no private rooms and we ask that you come prepared, with good earplugs and a willingness to practice forbearance towards your roommate/s. If you do not feel comfortable sharing a room with others we may be able to find space in the living room or shrine room for one or two people, but this is not guaranteed, so please get in touch about this before you register.  There is also the option to camp, although it will be cold, and possibly raining or snowing.

TRAVEL AND CARPOOLING

We encourage carpooling. If you need help organizing a ride please let us know and we will do our best to get you there. If you are driving and can offer rides, please also let us know. Thank you!

I’m sorry that we cannot arrange airport or train station pickups.

TIMING AND COST

The retreat is 7 nights, beginning with registration at 5pm Sunday Dec 27, and ending Sunday Jan 3 by 11am.

Registration opens in September

To reserve your space we ask you to pay the full amount or a $200 deposit.  Deposits become non-refundable after the booking deadline of December 13 or when you are notified that the retreat is full. The full cost is a sliding scale: $590 supported rate; $680 standard rate; $770 generosity rate.