The Sober Social – Sober and Mindful Speed Friending
Saturday October 24, 6pm to 7pm
Looking to meet like-minded people in a calm, intentional space? Want to expand your social circle without the noise of the usual bar scene?
Welcome to Present Connections—a relaxed evening of substance-free speed friending designed for adults in their 20s, 30s, and 40s.
Hosted here at the San Francisco Buddhist Center, this event is for anyone looking to build genuine friendships rooted in presence, mindfulness, and authentic conversation.
Whether you are fully sober, sober-curious, or simply looking for a peaceful night out, you are entirely welcome here.
What the Evening Looks Like
- A Grounding Start: We will begin our evening together with a brief, beginner-friendly guided meditation. It is a simple way to leave the stress of the day behind, quiet the mind, and ease any social jitters.
- Low-Pressure Conversations: Once we are grounded, we will transition into a series of short, one-on-one chats. We will provide gentle, meaningful icebreaker prompts to help conversations flow naturally without any awkward small talk.
- A Peaceful Atmosphere: Enjoy hot tea, a calm environment, and the company of local people who appreciate a slower, more conscious approach to life and friendship.
- Simple Matchmaking: At the end of the evening, you can privately share your contact info with the people you’d like to connect with.
Keeping the Space Safe
To respect the venue and the intention of this gathering, this is a strictly alcohol- and drug-free space. We kindly ask all guests to arrive entirely sober and to help us maintain a clear, peaceful environment throughout the evening.
Spaces are kept limited to maintain an intimate and comfortable setting. We look forward to sharing space and connecting with you.
Please pre-register below.
All contributions go to keep the SFBC running. All our teachers are volunteers.
Health Precautions
Please do not attend if you think you have flu or cold symptoms or anything that could be contagious, or if you have been in contact with someone who may be contagious. Thank you for your cooperation and consideration.